Relationship counseling or coaching can be beneficial for a range of reasons. For example, if you are in a relatively new relationship where you might be contemplating moving in together or becoming engaged, you might like to learn how to deepen your connection with your partner, how to maintain that new relationship feeling or how to navigate stressful or unexpected life challenges that arise as a couple. Or, if you've been together through years of marriage, you might find that you've hit a rough patch in your relationship and you might be looking for some better ways to communicate with and understand your partner, how to argue less, or how to reignite romance and bring back the fun you once had as a couple. Whatever may be the case, what I've found is that most mates are looking for admiration, love, respect and appreciation.